PREMARITAL COUNSELING

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Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies

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Pre-marital counselling

Premarital Counseling in Oklahoma

Found the ‘Prince Charming’ or the ‘Belle’ of your Dreams?
Everything appears perfect! The way it Should be . . .
Getting married and Settling Together Seems Like a Fairytale COME TRUE!

But WAIT!!! Is it?
Is Your Gut Instinct Telling You to Reconsider Your Options?
Are You Under Pressure from Your Fiancé or Fiancée?
Are You Afraid, Confused and/or Perplexed?
Should You Plan and Prepare?

Do not Fear! Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies and Premarital Counseling in OKC are HERE!

Many humans are social animals, with many created to survive in pairs bonded by love and affection. However, some individuals struggle in finding the right partner; their willingness to settle down and start a family often downplays their personality, aims, ambition, purpose, and most importantly the expectations they have for their life partner.
This often creates resentment, misunderstanding, failure to compromise for the well-being of their relationship, compatibility challenges and throws what could be a long-lasting relationship to the rocks.

What could be worse?! You think you have walked through your entire life in your head with the ”one,” but have you, REALLY? Marriage has many aspects, which all couples are not aware of until they experience it. Life encounters waves: tsunamis will often hit you . . . but are you mentally prepared to sail your boat smoothly throughout your journey in the vast ocean? Think again! If not, pre-marital counselling in Oklahoma City is right for you!

Dr. Makayla Saramosing, Reverend Glenna Sue Voegle, and other licensed ministers of Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies are pleased to offer premarital counseling services in Oklahoma!
Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies offers Premarital counseling in OKC offered, aimed at exercises to strengthen your bond as a couple and prepare you for marriage in OKC!

Wait! Nobody Told Us Marriage Is Planning for the Future. So,
Is Not Marriage a Magical Fairytale . . . Right?

Marriage marks the most important ‘foundational milestone’ in our lives. Just like finding the right spouse is not always easy, settling with the ‘one’ for the rest of your entire life seems scary enough – let alone not to be entirely sure of your life-changing decision!

 

Nowadays, many couples rush into getting married, without even realizing what a huge commitment married life entails! Many brides and grooms never discuss important and even seemingly insignificant matters before getting married. They do not discuss roles, expectations, kids, jobs, money, and so much more. This is where premarital counseling in OKC with a premarital counselor in Oklahoma can come in handy. Premarital counseling in OKC helps prepare you for your lifelong journey and the future of your new family. 😊

The best and most difficult parts of ever getting married are not the day you get married – they are each day thereafter. Indeed, successful marriage requires that both people cross a bridge, compromise, and quickly realize that the old saying, “You can be right, or you can be married” is incredibly true. People who are married do not get to do everything they once could when both persons were single, but being married can also have great financial and emotional benefits, among others. Thus, the benefits both people receive while a married couple often outweigh the disadvantages of no longer getting the “freedom” that comes from being single.

Given that Marriage so Important and Sensitive, what are You Doing About it?

Should You Even Prepare for Marriage in Oklahoma with Premarital Counseling in OKC?

Let Us Explore Why Premarital Counseling in Oklahoma City with a Premarital Counselor in OKC is so important . . .

Evaluating Your Own Unhealthy Tendencies with Premarital Counseling in OKC

Growing up in a broken home, with divorced parents, with live-in relationships without commitment, with parents struggling to stay together or with parents failing to provide for their children are unfortunate realities of our world. All these situations leave a long-lasting, negative impact on the lives of the children growing amidst them. Therefore, going through premarital counseling in Oklahoma City with a premarital counselor in OKC from Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies before you get married is so vital to a healthy, happy marriage.

 

A couple getting married may exclaim, “I’m not going to have a marriage like that,” or “I’m not ever going to do it that way.” They think that verbalizing this to their premarital counselor in OKC might be the best solution for a happy life. But one must understand that saying things aloud – even in premarital counseling in OKC or sheer power is not sufficient to keep your marriage away from hitting the rocky shores.

Every married couple, at some point in their lives, hits an especially rough patch. Any premarital counselor in Oklahoma City will readily tell you that this is completely normal, and natural. Likewise, every couple needs to know that it is okay and preferable for a couple that is struggling to seek out help from a minister in OKC or a premarital counselor in Oklahoma City to help guide them through the premarital counseling in Oklahoma and marriage counseling in OKC process.

Seeking out premarital counseling in OKC via a premarital counselor in Oklahoma in no way makes a person or couple “weak” or “bad.” Only the wise and happy seek out the help of others when they need it most. Likewise, the foolish pretend they can do everything on their own – without premarital counseling in OKC with a premarital counselor in OKC OK – and end up miserable and often divorced. Please do not let this happen to you!

Set yourself up to succeed! Take the initiative and seek out premarital counseling in OKC with Dr. Makayla Saramosing, a premarital counselor in Oklahoma at Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies who provides premarital counseling in OKC to explore the awareness of what might have gone wrong for others so that it may not be the case for you! Your premarital counselor in Edmond, Oklahoma will take great care to carefully guide you through the premarital counseling process. Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies will assist you with identifying unhealthy tendencies and perspectives on marriage that can help you avoid falling into the pattern to divorce.

Evaluation of Your Own Preconceived Ideas and Expectations with Premarital Counseling in OKC with a Premarital Counselor in Oklahoma City

Every individual has had a different and unique life. Everyone’s own life is an adventure, where they grow, change, and evolve with the passage of time. The physical, mental, spiritual, and sexual needs not only differ individually, but keep on evolving. Consequently, an individual expects its spouse to have similar perceptions, sensitivities, and choices on the matters of physical, mental, spiritual, and sexual needs. Most of the time, conflict and disagreement arises when the “soul-mate,” and “the partner” who is by your side throughout your life, has a different or opposite preferences, perception, and insights on doing things.

The problem arises when one individual thinks of their perceptions, preferences, and sensitivities to be the RIGHT WAY, because they perceive that as the normal waythe way they did things when growing up. However, the biggest problems arise, when the two individuals disagree on what the “right way” is and/or when their toxic patterns of behaviour come up; it can spark enormous flames that can turn into a ranging fire that completely engulfs the couple’s relationship and can also negatively affect the lives of those around them. This is where a premarital counselor in OKC from Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies can help you with premarital counseling services in OKC.

Some couples rush into marriage with expectations of which they are not even aware. The couples are not aware of their expectations from their partners until they are married and living together as spouse and spouse. Evaluating these expectations and the subsequent anticipation from your partner is particularly important if you are marrying interfaith or intercultural, or when the choice of your spouse (i.e., same sex, transgender, etc., +) is not something your birth family approves of. Of course, there is no valid reason someone should *not* have a marriage that is interfaith, intercultural, or LGBTQIA+, as a decent, moral premarital counselor in OKC will tell you.

Receiving training from Dr. Makayla Saramosing, Reverend Glenna Sue Voegle and other premarital counselors with Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies can guide the couple in identifying perceived expectations and the sensitive areas, which are the cause of the conflict.

 

Opportunities to Address Issues and Conflicts, While Planning for the Future

  • Is getting married in Oklahoma a promising idea?
  • Is getting married to my future spouse a bad idea?
  • Who is going to take out the trash?
  • How much time do you both plan on spending together?
  • What shall we do with our finances?
  • What happens if our close relatives get sick and need to move in with us?
  • How do we handle stress?
  • What is our parenting style going to be?
  • What sexual expectations do we have?
  • Do we have compatible religious and political beliefs?
  • If I have been married before, what caused our previous marriages to end in divorce?
  • What kind of toothpaste and toilet paper are we going to use?
  • Do we want to have children? If so, what roles will we have and what will our parenting style be?

When it comes to marriage, one cannot avoid the fate, but for the least, one can take a calculated decision, to avoid regret and guilt, later. Many young couples who rush into fulfilling their life goals, especially the ones where the instant crushes turned into love, are often unprepared and ill-equipped to manage the responsibilities it entails for a successful marriage. Therefore, each couple should undergo premarital counseling in OKC with the premarital counselor in Oklahoma City with Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies’ premarital counseling services in Oklahoma.

The 15+ years’ experience of each premarital counselor in Oklahoma allows Lifelong ceremonies to provide premarital counseling in Oklahoma City for each couple, while engaging them in a lot of questions during premarital counseling in Oklahoma City that will help them analyze their future with their chosen future spouse.

Premarital counselling in OKC with Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies’ premarital counseling services in Oklahoma helps bring out information, sensitive issues, and expectations which the partners are reluctant to share. Experienced ministers and premarital counselors in Oklahoma at Lifelong ceremonies are well-trained in delicately bringing up sensitive issues, while keeping the conversations more candid. At the same time, each premarital counselor in Oklahoma strives to provide a safe space for couples to engage without hurting the feelings of their partners. These premarital counseling in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma sessions help couples learn more about each other, while offering a great growth opportunity via premarital counseling services in Oklahoma City.

Engaging couples in exercises which allow them to open up softly, more candidly and comfortably opens channels of communication where partners tend to ‘Listen closely and calmly’ to each other. This is one of the major areas that navigates conflict, misunderstanding and resentment. It can be particularly helpful if one individual in the couple has been in failed relationships before.

Enter Marriage with a Framework for Building a Healthy Relationship with Marriage Counseling in Oklahoma City

One of the main reasons why more couples are opting for premarital counseling in Oklahoma City with a premarital counselor in Oklahoma, is that premarital counseling in Edmond, Oklahoma gives couples a sense of awareness, stability, safety, direction, and an idea of what they are stepping into.

Dr. Makayla Saramosing, Reverend Glenna Sue Voegle, and other premarital counseling in OKC providers at Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies are well-trained and experienced to take out potential fear, unhealthy tendencies and unrealistic goals and expectations while giving the couple guidance, hope, and tips for successfully navigating conflicts and meaningful conversations.

Premarital counseling in Yukon, Oklahoma through our premarital counselor in Oklahoma allows each couple to explore questions and topics which govern every phase of their upcoming lives together. Some crucial topics each couple will discuss with their premarital counselor in Norman, Oklahoma include, but are not limited to, the following:

  • Beliefs and Values
  • Perception and Roles in Marriage
  • Communication
  • Time Spent Together
  • Affection and Sex
  • Children and Parenting
  • Family Relationships
  • Decision-making
  • Dealing with Anger
  • Finances
  • Gender
  • Political Beliefs
  • Mental Health Issues
  • Seemingly Small Things Which Can Sometimes Become Major Issues – Division of Chores, Which Brand of Toothpaste to Use, Levels of Cleanliness

Additionally, there are so many benefits that couples that choose premarital counseling in Oklahoma receive, and some of these include but are not limited to, the following:

  • Find Out Why You Are Getting Married
  • Discover What the Benefits & Challenges of Marriage are
  • Have A Clearer Understanding of Many Marital Expectations
  • See Whether or Not You & Your Partner Have the Same Ideas About Marriage
  • Enjoy A Longer, Happier Marriage

WAIT! Lifelong Ceremonies Want You to SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE AND MONEY?

Dr. Makayla Saramosing, a premarital counselor in Moore, Oklahoma who offers premarital counseling in Oklahoma via Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies, IS DETERMINED TO HELP GUIDEYOU ON THE PATH FOR AN EVERLASTING LOVE!

The State of Oklahoma will allow all couples that engage in premarital counseling services in Oklahoma City via a premarital counselor in Oklahoma City like Dr. Makayla Saramosing to obtain their wedding licenses for only $5! That means you save $45 off the cost of getting your marriage license in OKC, as you will otherwise have to pay $50 for your license without premarital counseling services in Edmond, Oklahoma.

 

Since the Cost of Premarital Counseling Through Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies Is Only About $25 When Ordered with a Wedding Ceremony Package in Oklahoma, You Actually Save a Total of About $20 Off the Cost of Your Marriage License – All from Premarital Counseling in Oklahoma City with a Premarital Counselor in OKC from Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies. Your Premarital Counselor in OKC Will Provide You with a Premarital Counseling Certificate, Once You Complete Your Premarital Counseling in Oklahoma City. What A Deal!

You reap long-lasting benefits for a lifetime when you opt for Premarital Counseling in OKC. Premarital counseling with Dr. Makayla Saramosing and others with Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies who offer premarital counseling services in OKC. The small amount of time you spend undergoing premarital counseling in OKC can really pay off even more in the long run!

Aside from the overall $20 you will end up saving on the cost of your marriage license, just think about how much potential time, stress and the extensive costs of divorce and child custody battles you could end up saving.

Divorce can be so hard on families, and divorces are even more difficult for families with children. If you think you do not have four hours to devote to premarital counseling in Oklahoma with Dr. Makayla Saramosing and others who offers premarital counseling services in OKC with Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies, then please just think of how expensive a messy divorce and child custody battle could be! An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of medicine. By investing a little extra time up front with premarital counseling in OKC before you get married and get married, you could potentially save you an enormous headache later down the line.

There are no right or wrong answers during your confidential premarital counseling in Oklahoma, and you will never be put “in the hot seat” per se. The goals and purposes of providing premarital counseling in Oklahoma City are to help you decide if marriage is right for you now and what to expect. Dr. Makayla Sarmaosing offers marriage counseling in Oklahoma and premarital counseling in OKC via Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies, and she wants to help you ensure that you are going into marriage for the right reasons. It is important that you know that your premarital counselor in Oklahoma wants you to feel relaxed, laid back, and for you to enjoy our discussion during premarital counseling in OKC. At the end of the premarital counseling in Oklahoma, your decision as to whether to proceed with your wedding ceremony is entirely your call.

Please Call Dr. Makayla Saramosing, a premarital counselor in Oklahoma who offers premarital counseling services in Oklahoma City via Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies. Call (405) 696-6450 Today for All of Your Premarital Counseling in Mustang, Oklahoma Needs!

  • Is getting married in Oklahoma a good idea?
  • Is getting married to my future spouse a bad idea?
  • Who is going to take out the trash?
  • How much time do you both plan on spending together?
  • What shall we do with our finances?
  • What happens if our close relatives get sick and need to move in with us?
  • How do we handle stress?
  • What is our parenting style going to be?
  • If I have been married before, what caused our previous marriages to end in divorce?
  • What kind of toothpaste and toilet paper are we going to use?

These are just a few of the many topics you will have the benefit of exploring with your premarital counselor! Premarital counseling in Oklahoma is such a wonderful idea, because so many people get married and divorced far too easily and quickly.

There are so many benefits that couples that choose the premarital counseling option receive, and some of these include but are not limited to, the following:

  • Find Out Why You Are Getting Married.
  • Discover What The Benefits & Challenges Of Marriage Are.
  • Have A Clearer Understanding Of Many Marital Expectations.
  • See Whether Or Not You & Your Partner Have The Same Ideas About Marriage.
  • Enjoy A Longer, Happier Marriage With A Lower Divorce Rate!
  • Get Better Discernment About Whether Or Not Marriage Is Right For You.

WAIT! WHAT’S THE BEST PART? PREMARITAL COUNSELING WILL SAVE ME MONEY? YES! ALL PREMARITAL COUNSELING REALLY COSTS YOU IS A LITTLE BIT OF YOUR TIME! 
The State of Oklahoma will allow all couples that engage in premarital counseling through Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies to obtain their wedding licenses for only $5! That means you save $45 off the cost of getting your marriage license, as you will otherwise have to pay $50. Since the cost of premarital counseling through Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies is only $25, you actually save a total of $20 and benefit from premarital counseling! What a deal! 

Premarital counseling with Dr. Tinsley Keefe and other licensed ministers in Oklahoma via Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies can really pay off even more in the long run! Aside from the overall $20 you will end up saving on the cost of your marriage license, just think about how much potential time, stress and the extensive costs of divorce and child custody battles you could end up saving?

Divorce can be so hard on families, and they are even more so for families with children. If you think you don’t have four hours to devote to premarital counseling with Dr. Tinsley Keefe and the other licensed ministers with Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies, then please just think of how expensive a messy divorce and child custody battle could be! An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of medicine. By investing a little extra time up front with premarital counseling before you tie the knot and get married, you could potentially be saving yourself an enormous headache later on down the line.

There are no right or wrong answers during your confidential premarital counseling, and you will never be put “in the hot seat” per se. The goals and purposes of providing these premarital counseling service in Oklahoma are to help you decide if marriage is right for you at this point in time. Dr. Tinsley Keefe and Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies want to help you ensure that you are going into marriage for the right reasons. It is important that you know that we want you to feel relaxed, laid back, and for you to enjoy our discussion! At the end of the premarital counseling in Oklahoma, your decision as to whether or not to proceed with your wedding ceremony is entirely your call! 

Please call Dr. Makayla Saramosing of Lifelong Wedding Ceremonies at (405) 696-6450 today for all of your premarital counseling needs!